How Long Should You Wait To Have Sex With Your Partner For The First Time

Making a decision regarding when the right time to get physically intimate with a new partner is something a lot of people face.

Making this move too early or too late in a relationship will go a long way to define the manner of relationship you will have. While, ultimately, this is a personal decision, checking out advice for a few Nigerians with their respective reasons could help determine what you will do.

” I think it is best to wait about two months after you start dating someone before you have sex with them. This is because you need some time to make sure you are both looking for a serious relationship before you start sleeping together. And sometimes, if you wait too long, it is likely your partner will just go elsewhere to get it. ” – Rachael , 26.

” It does not matter how long you wait to have sex. A strong relationship will still survive regardless of whenever sex is introduced. I think you do not need to have a specific time to get physical with someone. All that is needed is that the both of you is willing and ready. ” – Mike, 31.

” You should wait as long as possible. Between 6 months to a year is perfect. At this time, you will know if there is marriage in your future. There is no point sleeping with someone you do not see yourself married to. Introduce each other to your families and make sure your relationship has strong foundation. Preferably, hold off on sex until you are absolutely sure your relationship will end in marriage. ” – Chioma, 34.

” The earlier you know if you are sexually compatible , the better. So, all you need to do is wait a few weeks and then you can get intimate with your partner. This way, you will not be wasting any time and effort in a relationship if you are not physically compatible.” – Diana, 23

” Sex is not for unmarried couples. If you truly love each other, you will both wait until you have cemented your relationship in front of God and man and that is through marriage. It pays to wait until marriage to have sex with your partner.” Mark 39.

As expected everyone has different opinion on the matter, and whatever route you choose depends on the kind of person you are and what you believe in. All that matters is that the sex is consensual and no one is feeling pressured