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Tuesday, October 24, 2017

Manara huwezi mfananisha Ajibu na Okwi

Mkurugenzi wa Habari na Mawasiliano wa Simba, Haji Manara amefunguka na kuweka wazi kuwa ni kweli Mshambuliaji wa Yanga, Ibrahim Ajibu Migomba kwa sasa ni kiburudisho tosha nchini lakini amemtosa kuwa mshambuliaji huyo huwezi kumfananisha na Okwi.

Haji Manara amesema hayo kupitia mtandao wake wa kijamii na kusema ni kweli aliwahi kutamka hilo lakini ukweli unabakia pale pale kuwa kwa sasa Ajib bado huwezi kumfananisha na Okwi kwani wanatofauti kubwa ndiyo maana hata idadi ya magoli yao imekuwa kubwa kati yao.

"Ni kweli niliandika Ajibu ni kiburudisho zaid nchini kwa sasa, ila ninaendelea kukemea kashushwa na Mungu ndio imani yangu itakavyo. Kisha sisi tunataka ubingwa, viburudisho peleka kwenye minuso, ndio maana tuna Okwi kama mbadala wa viburudisho, goli nane kwa tano wapi na wapi" aliandika Manara

Mshambuliaji wa Simba Emmanuel Okwi kwa sasa ndiye anayeongoza kwenye Ligi Kuu Bara kwa kuwa na idadi kubwa ya magoli ambayo ni 8 akifuatiwa na mshambuliaji kutoka Yanga Ajib ambaye ana magoli 5 kwa mechi 7 walizocheza.

Simba na Yanga zinatarajiwa kukutana Jumamosi hii Oktoba 28, 2017 katika mzunguko wa nane wa Ligi Kuu Tanzania Bara

Sunday, October 22, 2017

"8 Attributes That Show A Lady Will Become A Stingy Wife"

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It perplexes me when a lady often nags and finds fault in everything just because her boyfriend is going through difficult time but the moment he climbs the ladder of success and achieves greatness, she will start being tolerant and nice even though she has been a nagging girlfriend.

When this character is noticed in a lady, it should ring a bell to guys that careful tactful need to be employ when dealing with such lady.

Below are the evidences that shows a lady will become very stingy when you marry her.

1. She presents inferior gifts to her boyfriend

For a lady who present inferior gifts such as N100 recharge card, mallam perfume, slippers, china boxers and singlets as birthday gift for her boyfriend shows that she will become a stingy and disastrous wife. It's a shameful thing to see how some ladies treat their boyfriends like a worthless dog hereby presenting an inferior gift to a guy who went extra mile to please them during their birthday celebration.

2. She doesn't want to lose anything

According to Prof Tosyne2much, he opined that some ladies are so stingy that they share similar characteristics with our policemen. When you visit them, you will be the one to spend, when they visit you, you will still be the one to spend. These kind of ladies are stingy and will contribute nothing in marriage.

3. She always claim to be broke

A lady who always claims to be broke at all time when her account is actually fat indicates that the probability is high for her to become a home wrecker. Such ladies are only interested in what a guy can offer financially but immediately things turn sour, you won't see their brake light again.

4. I can't spend on guys

It's a huge blow on ladies whose brains are wired to the belief that financial responsibilities and pressure should only be mounted on guys while the ladies go about flexing. As a result of this, many of them see marriage as a route to escape from poverty. Some of them will even say that they can never call a guy who sends them recharge card (what a wack mentality). These kind of ladies can't help build a home.

5. She can't Lend her Boyfriend Money

It's very shameful that many useless ladies always claim that they can't respect their boyfriends if they borrow him money. This is nothing but bullshit. The last time I check, relationship is give and take and it should emanate from both side. Never even consider walking down the aisle with such a lady.

6. She hates the idea of doing dutch on dates

I have seen cases where some stingy ladies grumble and murmur like children of Israel saying that their boyfriends do not love them just because their boyfriends demanded that the bill be splitted and paid by each party when on date. These categories of ladies will end up causing problems in the family as they are stubborn headed to pool resources together.

7. She's desperate to know her boyfriend's monthly income

I don't really blame guys who are bent on not disclosing their monthly income to their girlfriend, this is because many ladies are only curious to know so that they will know how to bring up cooked up stories to scam him. Survey has it that any lady who is desperate to know her boyfriend's monthly income is nothing but a selfish lady. Desist from such a lady.

8. She wants everything for free

They always advocate no sex before marriage yet they want everything for free while they are not ready to pay a sacrifice. However, ladies who want everything on a platter of gold need to understand that a guy will never cherish you if you are always at the receiving end. Guys like it when they beg a lady to accept their money or gifts. Ladies of this nature will become stingy wives

The only reason to date your friend's ex Boyfriend


You shouldn't let your friend's grievances stop you from dating someone you like doesn't matter if it's your friend's ex
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Many people say 'never date your friend's ex-boyfriend' and how it breaks the girl code. But according to relationship and life coach Marie Dubuque, it all depends on the situation between your friend and her ex.



"if enough time has elapsed and your friend is over him in a reasonable way, then it's okay to date your friend's ex", Dubuque says.

A reasonable time is if after a year your friend is still not over her past relationship then it's okay to date her ex, the relationship coach says this is because you shouldn't let your friend's grievances stop you from dating someone you like doesn't matter if it's your friend's ex.

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You should also advise your friend to seek help because a year is quite enough time to get over a failed relationship.

Aside this, if your friend just broke up let's say about a month and she's still grieving over ex boyfriend, then you'll really be breaking the girl code if you get into a relationship with your friend's ex.

How To Make Your Partner/Spouse Ask For More [MUST READ]



While some people believe that se'x is no big deal in a relationship or marriage, others see it as something they only want to share with someone special to them.
The fact is, no sane person would want to force his or her partner/spouse to have se'x with them.
So if you've reached that point in your relationship where you want to take it to the next level, you can always soothe some of his/her fears and reassure him/her that you are really a person he or she can fully trust.
After you do some of the below magical tricks, you can be rest assured that se'x will come naturally:
1. Be Dependable:
If you want to make your partner/spouse want to have se'x with you, then you should show him/her what an amazingly dependable person you are. If your girl is going to trust you enough to have se'x with you, whether it's her first time or if she's had se'x before, then she has to feel like she can depend on you. One of her fears may be that as soon as you have se'x, she won't be able to rely on you anymore because you would have gotten what you wanted. So, prove her wrong by being an upstanding and dependable guy.
2. Give it time: 
Some guys can be ready to have se'x with a girl in the time it takes to down a beer, while some girls can take months, or even longer, to decide that they're ready to make love. And some girls -- sorry, gentlemen -- are really adamant about holding out for the one, and don't even want to have se'x before marriage. So, don't rush into it -- wait for the girl to trust you first. If you want to make your girlfriend want to have se'x with you, the worst thing you can do is bring it up or try to force it when it's way too early. This will turn your girlfriend off and will make her much less likely to sleep with you.


3. Don't act like you're obsessed with se'x:
Let's face it -- if you're a male of a certain age who is desperate for his girlfriend to have se'x with him, then you probably are obsessed with se'x. But that doesn't mean you have to make jokes, innuendos, or even blatant references to se'x all the time. The last thing you want your girlfriend to think is that you're a horndog who is so obsessed with se'x that you don't care which lady comes into your bed. You should make her feel special, like you want only her.
4. Be Loyal: 
If you want to make your girlfriend trust you, then you have to be loyal to her. She'll never have se'x with you if she thinks you're talking to or checking out other women, or even hanging out with other women. Though you don't have to be rude to or ignore other women, you should have a laser-sharp focus on your girlfriend so she knows that you will always be there for her, especially after you start having se'x.
5. Make Sure She Is Ready For Se'x:
If you really want to treat your lady well, then you have to be able to have an idea about whether or not she's ready for se'x. If you're her first boyfriend, if she's se'xually inexperienced, or if she's deeply  religious or has other moral convictions that make her steadfast about not having se'x, then you should back off and wait for her to trust you enough to even consider having se'x with you.
6. Be Prepared: 
If you plan on trying to have se'x, or even talking about having se'x with your girl, then you should be prepared with some condoms in case the mood strikes her. If she wants to have se'x and you have to run out to the drug store for some condoms, this may make your first se'xual experience fall flat
7.Set The Mood:
If you want your girl to have se'x with you, then you have to set the mood. You should start the evening by doing something romantic to soften her up. Then, go back to your (clean) apartment, which should be stocked with red wine, grapes, chocolate, and some light jazz on the radio. Light the candles and turn the radio on to get her in a romantic mindset, and offer her something to eat or drink.
8. Kiss Her:
If you want your girl to have se'x with you, then you have to be a master kisser. Even if you've been kissing for a while, you should still know how to kiss her in a variety of ways and make your kisses feel fresh. Don't overwhelm her and grope her the second you lock lips. Instead, take it slow, grazing your lips as you touch her hair or stroke her face.Take breaks from kissing so she has time to come up for air and want you even more.You are not very likely to have se'x with your girlfriend if all you've done is kiss. It takes a bit longer for things to reach a natural progression.
9. Play Hard To Get:
 If you really want to make your girlfriend want you, then you shouldn't act like a se'xual beast, moving rapidly from kissing to touching, to ripping off your clothes and practically levitating into the bedroom. Instead, you should kiss your girlfriend for a few seconds, then hold back, stroke her, and talk to her. Repeat this move a few times and wait for her to go wild. Why does playing hard to get work? Because this will make your girlfriend feel like you like her, but that you're in control of your desires and aren't desperate to get your hands all over her -- even if you are. This will make her want to be the one who asks for more.


10. Touch Her:
If you want to turn on your girlfriend, you can start thinking about doing more than just kissing. Begin by lightly caressing her arms, the back of her head and hair, and then, as things progress, stroke her breasts under her shirt or wait for her to touch you. If your clothes are off or partly off, you can kiss her breasts or touch her through her underwear to get her in the mood.


11. Don't Pressure Her:
If your girlfriend says she's not ready to have se'x with you, then you shouldn't pressure her. Don't try making any arguments -- saying things like, "But we've been together for so long," "Everyone else is doing it," or "But I really, really like you," isn't going to make her feel any better. In fact, trying to reason with her will only make her more frustrated, annoyed, and much less likely to sleep with you

Jinsi Mbuzi Anavyo Tumika Katika Tiba Dhidi Ya Tatizo La Nguvu Za Kiume.

Wanyama  na  ndege  au bidhaa ama  vitu  vitokanavyo nao  huweza  kutumika  katika  tiba dhidi  ya magonjwa  na  matatizo  mbalimbali  ya  kifaa.

Mbuzi  Dume  aliye  komaa.  Nyama, korodani  na  dhakari  zinazo  faa  kutumika  kama  lishe  maalumnu  kwa  wanaume  wenye  tatizo  la  ukosefu na  upungufu  za  kiume vinatakiwa  kutokana  na  mbuzi  beberu  aliye  komaa 
 
Katika   makala  ya  leo  tutatazama  namna  mnyama mbuzi  anavyo  tumika  katika  tiba  asilia  ya  tatizo  la  ukosefu  na/ama  upungufu  wa  nguvu  za  kiume.

Mbuzi  jike  na dume  kwa pamoja  wanaweza  kutumika  katika  tiba  dhidi  ya  tatizo  la  ukosefu  na  upungufu  wa  nguvu  za  kiume kwa  namna  tofauti  tofauti.

Wanyama  hawa  hawatumiki kama  tiba  persee  ila  wanatumika  kama  lishe  maalumu  kwa   watu wanao  tumia  tiba  asilia za  tatizo  la  nguvu  za  kiume .
 
Matumizi  ya  mnyama  huyu  si  tu  kwa  wanaume  wenye  tatizo  la  ukosefu  na  ama  upungufu  wa  nguvu  za  kiume, bali  hata  kwa  wanaume  ambao  hawana  tatizo  hilo  lakini  wanataka  kuzitunza,kuzilinda  na / ama  kuziimarisha  nguvu  zao.
 
JINSI  MBUZI  WANAVYO  TUMIKA  KATIKA  TIBA  YA  TATIZO  LA  UKOSEFU  NA/ AMA  UPUNGUFU  WA  NGUVU  ZA  KIUME.
Mbuzi  anaweza   kutumika  kama  sehemu  ya  tiba  -lishe  ama  lishe  maalumu  kwa  wanaume  wanao  sumbuliwa  na  tatizo  la  ukosefu  na  /ama  upungufu  wa  nguvu  za  kiume  kwa  kufuata  utaratibu  ufuatao

A.   MBUZI  JIKE

Mahitaji
1.    Lita moja  ya maziwa  ya  mbuzi
2.     Punje kumi  na nne  za  tende  au vijiko  vikubwa  vinne  vya  asali  ya  tende
3.    Kijiko  kimoja  kikubwa  cha unga  wa  hiriki (Unga  wa  hiriki  unapatikana  kwa  kusaga  hiriki. Kwa  lugha  nyingine, unga wa  hiriki  ni  hiriki  iliyo  sagwa )
4.      Vijiko  viwili  vidogo  vya  dawa  asilia  ya  Jiko.
5.    Kikombe  cha  maji ya  moto au vuguvugu  chenye  ujazo  wa  mills  250.

Matayarisho
1.     Changanya  lita  moja  ya  maziwa fresh ya  mbuzi  na  punje  kumi na  nne  za  tende au  changanya  hiyo lita  moja  ya  maziwa  fresh  ya  mbuzi  na vijiko  vikubwa  vinne  vya  asali  ya  tende.  Tia  kwenye  chupa  au chombo  chochote  kisafi na  salama  na  ambacho  unaweza  kukitumia  kuhifadhia, kisha  koroga  na  uhifadhi  ndani  ya  friji  halafu  acha  mchanganyiko  wako usiku kucha.

2.    Ikifika  asubuhi, changanya  mchanganyiko huu na  kijiko kimoja  kikubwa  cha  hiriki  iliyo  sagwa, vijiko  vitatu  vya  dawa  ya  jiko  iliyo  katika  mfumo  wa  unga unga  kisha  koroga  halafu  gawanya  dawa yako katika   portion mbili  zenye  ujazo  sawa.

MATUMIZI
Tumia  kunywa  lishe hii  mara  mbili kwa  siku  asubuhi  na  usiku na utafanya  hivyo  mara  moja  kwa  wiki  kwa  wiki  nne  mfululizo. Hapa  maana  yake  ndani  ya mwezi mmoja, utatakiwa  kuwa umetumia  lishe  hii  mara  nne  tu.

JAMBO  LA  KUZINGATIA
 Lishe  hii  inaenda  sambamba na  matumizi  ya  dawa  asilia  ya  jiko.  Unashauriwa  kutumia  lishe  hii katika  kipindi  ambacho  unatumia  jiko  pia. Ingawa  lishe  hii  utakuwa ukiitumia  mara  moja kwa  wiki kwa muda  wa  wiki  nne, dawa  ya  jiko  utatakiwa  kuitumia  mara  mbili  kwa  siku  kwa  muda  wa  siku thelathini.
 
B: MBUZI  DUME
Sehemu  ya  mbuzi  dume  inayo  tumika  katika  tiba  dhidi  ya  tatizo  la  ukosefu  na  upungufu  wa  nguvu  za  kiume  ni  KORODANI, NYAMA (HUSUSANI NYAMA  YA MBAVU  AU SHINGO )  pamoja na  DHAKARI.

MAHITAJI
i.   Korodani  za  mbuzi zilizo
ii.  Pink  salt  ( Chumvi  ya  pink  ) kijiko kidogo kimoja
iii. Dawa  ya  jiko ( Eidha  iliyo  sagwa  katika  unga  au  iliyo katika  mfumo  wa  mizizi  )
iv.  Sufuria  lenye  uwezo  wa kubeba  kuanzia  lita tatu  za  maji  na  kuendelea
v.  Maji  lita  moja  na  nusu

MATAYARISHO
i.  Chukua  korodani  za  mbuzi kisha  tia  kwenye  sufuria
ii. Ongeza  maji  lita  moja  na  nusu
iii.Ongeza  pink salt  kijiko  kidogo kimoja
iv.Ongeza  vijiko  vitatu  vidogo vya  dawa  ya  jiko  iliyo katika  mfumo  wa  unga  au  kipande  kimoja cha mzizi  wa  jiko.
v.Chemsha  mchanganyiko  wako  hadi  utokote.
vi.Ipua, chuja  makapi  weka  pembeni  ubaki  na  supu  yako.
 
MATUMIZI  
Tumia  kunywa  supu  yako  hii  mara  moja tu.
JAMBO  LA  KUZINGATIA
 Lishe  hii  inaenda  sambamba na  matumizi  ya  dawa  asilia  ya  jiko.  Unashauriwa  kutumia  lishe  hii katika  kipindi  ambacho  unatumia  jiko  pia. Ingawa  lishe  hii  utakuwa ukiitumia  mara  moja kwa  wiki kwa muda  wa  wiki  nne, dawa  ya  jiko  utatakiwa  kuitumia  mara  mbili  kwa  siku  kwa  muda  wa  siku thelathini.
 
Ama  kwa  upande  wa  DHAKARI  ya mbuzi, jinsi  inavyo  tumika  kama  lishe  maalumu  kwa  wanaume  wenye  tatizo  la  ukosefu  na upungufu  wa  nguvu  za  kiume , matayarisho  yake  yapo  kama  ifuatavyo :

i. Dhakari  za  mbuzi  kuanzia  tatu hadi  tano  ambazo  zimenyonyolewa  tayari( Hizi  unaweza  kuzipata  ukienda  machinjioni )
ii. Pink  salt  nusu kijiko  kidogo
iii.Vijiko  vudogo  viwili  vya  dawa  ya  jiko  iliyo katika  unga.
 
JINSI   YA  KUTAYARISHA
Kausha  dhakari  zako  kwenye mwanga  wa  jua.  Zikisha  kauka, zisage  hadi zisagike  kisha  changanya  na  nusu kijiko  cha  pink salt,  na  vijiko  viwili  vidogo  vya  daw  ya jiko  iliyo  katika  ungaunga  kisha  tumia  kulamba  mchanganyiko  wako . Utakuwa  unafanya  hivyo  mara  mbili  kwa  siku  asubuhi  na  jioni. Utafanya  hivyo  hadi  mchanganyiko  wako  utakapo kamilika.

NYAMA  YA  BEBERU ( NYAMA  YA  MBUZI  DUME )  KAMA  LISHE  MAALUMU KWA  WANAUME  WENYE  TATIZO  LA  UKOSEFU  WA  NGUVU  ZA  KIUME.
 Jinsi  ya  kutumia  nyama  ya  beberu la  mbuzi  kama  lishe  maalumu  kwa  mwanaume  mwenye  tatizo  la  ukosefu na / ama  upungufu  wa  nguvu  za  kiume, fuata  maelekezo  yafuatayo :
 
Mahitaji
i. Nyama  ya  beberu  iliyo chomwa, kiasi  cha  nusu  kilo au  kilo moja  kulingana  na  uwezo  wako  wa  kula.
ii.  Nusu  lita  ya  asali ya  tende  au  robo kilo  ya  tende
iii.Pink salt  kijiko  kidogo kimoja
iv. Vijiko  vidogo  vitatu  vya  dawa  ya  jiko.
 
MATAYARISHO
Changanya  kijiko kimoja  kidogo  cha  pink salt kwenye nusu lita  ya asali ya  tende kisha  ongeza  ndani  yake  vijiko vidogo  vitatu  vya  dawa  ya  jiko  halafu koroga  hadi  vichangamane.

MATUMIZI
Chukua  kipande  cha  nyama  yako  ya  mbuzi, chovya  kwenye  mchanganyiko  wako  kisha  kula  hadi  utakapo  maliza  vipande  vyako  vyote  vya  nyama. Utafanya  hivyo mara  moja  tu inatosha  sana.

AU  KAMA  HAUNA  ASALI YA  TENDE
Changanya  pink  salt  na  dawa  ya  jiko, halafu  chukua  kipande  chako cha  nyama, chovya  kwenye  mchanganyiko  wa  jiko  na  pink  salt halafu  kula  pamoja  na punje moja ya tende(Naposema  punje  simaanishi  mbegu, namaanisha ile sehemu ya tende  inayo  faa kuliwa  )
 
Utafanya  hivyo  hadi kiasi chote  cha  tende  kitakapo  isha. Na  utafanya  hivyo  mara  moja tu.

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Monday, October 9, 2017

Kanuni Nne Za kujenga Mahusiano bora ya kimapenzi

Hakuna binadamu asiyefahamu nini maana ya mapenzi na kama wapo basi ni wachache sana na wanaweza kuwa hawafahamu kwa maneno lakini kivitendo wanakuwa wanafahamu aidha kwa kuona, kusikia na hata kwa wao wenyewe kushiriki kwenye mapenzi hayo.

Na hakuna binadamu yeyote asiyependa kupenda au kupendwa, wote tunapenda kupenda na pia tunapenda kupendwa in . Na siku zote ukipenda na usipopendwa pale unapopenda huwa inakuwa ni huzuni sana na wengine hufikia hatua mbaya sana za kufikiria mengine mengi tu ya hatari pale mapenzi yanapokuwa machungu kwao.

Hii ndio sababu wengi wetu huwa tunakaa pale tunapoona kweli kuna mapenzi na si kukaa pale ambapo unaona unadanganywa au kuzungushwa kila siku. Lakini kuna wakati tunaweza kujikuta hata pale tunapopenda na kupendwa pia panaharibika baada ya muda na kunakuwa na ugomvi na kukosa maelewano baina yenu na wakati mwingine usifahamu kwa nini hamuelewani au ukaelewa lakini ukakosa njia za kutatua.

Zifuatazo ni baadhi tu ya njia mbalimbali za kufanya ukae na mpenzi wako kwa muda mrefu kwenye mahusiano na mkafurahia mapenzi yenu popote pale mtakapokuwa na mtakapoishi.

1. Kuwa na muonekano chanya kwa mpenzi wako.
Ukiwa ni mtu wa kuangalia mabaya/kasoro sana kwa mpenzi wako kuliko mazuri yake hautakuja kukaa kwenye mahusiano kwa muda mrefu hata siku moja, utaendelea kubadilisha Wmwanaume / Wanawake kila siku na mwisho wa siku utajiona huna bahati kwenye mapenzi na wakati Unayeyaharibu mapenzi yako ni wewe Mwenyewe...kakuna asiye na kasoro (Ukiwemo Wewe Mwenyewe).

Kwa hiyo muonyeshe mpenzi wako mapenzi bora na umrekebishe pale anapokosea Bila Kuwa Na Lawama Mara Kwa Mara, Kuna Makosa Mengine Ni Hakuna binadamu asiyefahamu nini maana ya mapenzi na kama wapo basi ni wachache sana na wanaweza kuwa hawafahamu kwa maneno lakini kivitendo wanakuwa wanafahamu aidha kwa kuona, kusikia na hata kwa wao wenyewe kushiriki kwenye mapenzi hayo.

Na hakuna binadamu yeyote asiyependa kupenda au kupendwa, wote tunapenda kupenda na pia tunapenda kupendwa in return. Na siku zote ukipenda na usipopendwa pale unapopenda huwa inakuwa ni huzuni sana na wengine hufikia hatua mbaya sana za kufikiria mengine mengi tu ya hatari pale mapenzi yanapokuwa machungu kwao.

Hii ndio sababu wengi wetu huwa tunakaa pale tunapoona kweli kuna mapenzi na si kukaa pale ambapo unaona unadanganywa au kuzungushwa kila siku. Lakini kuna wakati tunaweza kujikuta hata pale tunapopenda na kupendwa pia panaharibika baada ya muda na kunakuwa na ugomvi na kukosa maelewano baina yenu na wakati mwingine usifahamu kwa nini hamuelewani au ukaelewa lakini ukakosa njia za kutatua.

Zifuatazo ni baadhi tu ya njia mbalimbali za kufanya ukae na mpenzi wako kwa muda mrefu kwenye mahusiano na mkafurahia mapenzi yenu popote pale mtakapokuwa na mtakapoishi.

1. Samehe na kusahau.
Unapomsamehe mpenzi wako kwa kosa lolote alilokosa basi hakikisha umemsamehe kiukweli na ujitahidi kusahau kosa alilotenda itasaidia uwe na amani ya moyo zaidi kuliko kumsamehe kwa usoni tu lakini moyoni ukawa na Donge bado, hii hupelekea kupunguza mapenzi kwa kiasi Fulani kwake na kujikosesha furaha ya mapenzi.Anapokosea siku nyingine usimkumbushe kosa lake la nyuma kwa sababu itamfanya ajione mwenye huzuni na ajione kuwa hakusamehewa.

2. Mpe nafasi na uhuru mpenzi wako.
Mnapokuwa kwenye mahusiano jitahidini kwa hali na mali kupeana nafasi/uhuru kwenye mambo mengi hasa yale ya kitaaluma zaidi na kimaisha.anapokwambia yupo kwenye kikao cha kikazi jaribu kumuelewa na umpe support ya kutosha kwenye kazi zake au biashara zake au hata masomo yake.
usipende sana kulalamika pale anapochelewa kurudi kazini au kutoka kwenye biashara zake bali mpokee kwa upole na baada ya kupumzika ndipo muulize kwa upole na kimahaba zaidi kwanini siku hizi anachelewa sana kurudi au kwenye biashara zake au shuleni tofauti na zamani.

Hii itajenga zaidi kuliko kubomoa kwa kulalamika na kupayuka mbele yake na huku yeye akiwa hata hajapumzika na itamfanya siku nyingine aione nyumba chungu kitu ambacho si kizuri kwenu wote wawili.

3.  Mfanye mwenza wako ajivunie kuwa nawe kila wakati.
Hakikisha katika mapenzi yenu kila siku unamfanya mpenzi wako ajivunie kuwa nawe na hakikisha humfanyi ajute kwa kukuchagua wewe miongoni mwa wote aliowaona. Usijidanganye hata siku moja kuwa kwa kumpata tu na kwa yeye kukupenda basi hajaona mwingine wa kuweza kuwa naye.

Wapo wengi sana anaoweza kuwa nao lakini amekuchagua wewe katika hao wote, kwa hiyo usimfanye aanze kuwafikiria wale wengine wanaomfuatilia kila siku na kumsumbua.Ukianza kumwacha aanze kuwafikiria wengine aidha kwa wewe kuwa unamkosesha amani ya mapenzi kila mara au kwa mengine mabaya ndani ya mapenzi basi ipo siku utaishia pabaya.

4. Msadie kwa khali na mali kila inapowezekana.
Kwenye mahusiano huwa kuna kupanda na kushuka miongoni mwa wapenzi na hasa kiuchumi na hata kisaikolojia. Hakuna kitu kizuri kwenye mapenzi kama mtu kupata tatizo na akasaidiwa na mpenzi wake katika hali ambayo hakuitegemea, namaanisha mpenzi wako akipata tatizo lolote hakikisha wewe ndo unakuwa wa kwanza kulifahamu na kulifanyia kazi.

Sio matatizo yote yanamalizwa kwa pesa so hata ushauri na kumpa mawazo chanya inasaidia sana na kumfanya awe na furaha kuwa nawe.Kama unampenda usione tabu kumsaidia kwa kuogopa kuonekana eti unahonga, huyo ni mpenzi wako kwa hiyo jiamini na umpe kile anachostahili kusaidiwa na mpenzi wake.

Yapo mambo mengi sana ambayo kama mkiyafanya kwenye mapenzi basi uhusiano wenu utakuwa wa kudumu na wenye furaha sana ingawa hapa nimezungumzia kwa uchache sana lakini nina imani itasaidia sana kwa wote walio kwenye mahusiano.

Mapenzi hayana ndumba au limbwata hata siku moja, unapoona wapenzi wengi wana furaha kwenye mapenzi yao ni kwa sababu wanavumiliana kwa mengi na kusameheana kwa mengi.

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